hey needs some advice

[trubiker]

I know that this is not the place for advice on what to do with bitchy wives but my wife and i are going to split but i am having a hard time because of the kids should i stay just for the kids . She nd i do not love one another any more but the kids again are my consern.

[fegs]

Bro, from experience the only thing I will tell you is to get ready for hell, at least until its all over. Also, get ready to anwer questions from the kids, point fingers, find strange people at ur house, stuff missing, etc.

But you need to stay cool through all of this.

There is NO AMICABLE divorce!

[Motosicle]

Man, Been there done that, Look for the worst and hope for the best! GOOD LUCK! Mabe you need to get on the scoot and take a weekend trip and just think for awhile? Look at all the aspect's! And then make a decision. It's one small step for mankind, and a large leap for one man! I have no idea of your situation and it's nothing to me. But KID's are a RED flag! Your talking feelings, future, Health, $$ court's, Lawyer's, C support , and alamo depending on your income assets or stock statas and poss jail time if you are like me:madani: . I enlisted in the military for 4 just to get away. Guess what? That Fucking Dame, was and still is worse than fucking Irac. Still fuck's with me and my new wife. My conclusion, Women, are like a fucking recap steering tire with one lug nut, on a Nextel cup car! You never know when they are gonna blow out, blow up over heat or just fly the fuck off the damn car. How bad the crash is gonna be. Or who the fuck's gonna be injured or killed! :dizzy: Not all women :no: but aprox 99.9% :jamming: When God said Brains, they thought he said fucking Train's, ALLLLL Abooord :biker: My advice, as a biker & troop, not a marrage counsler is take a trip for a few day's peace of mind. And on the way back stop at Best Buy grab a CD of the J Giles Band. Drag in like snale shit in a fucking wagon rut. when she least expect's it. Don't say a word. Insert the CD and Crank, I MUSTA, YOU KNOW I MUSTA, I MUSTA GOT LOST! If she get's smart or has an attitude then dedicate the song Reputa The Buta to her. Warning, you may get a knot on your head so large it will take a quart of iodine to paint a ring around it. If it gets too bad you can always act like Forest Gump tell her I JUST FELT LIKE RUNNING!

[anesthesia]

Don't stay just for the kids. They'll be better off if mom and dad are apart and happy rather than together and miserable.

No matter what, do your best to keep them out of it and explain everything the best you can, hopefully your wife can do the same.

[LuckyBastard]

I know that this is not the place for advice on what to do with bitchy wives but my wife and i are going to split but i am having a hard time because of the kids should i stay just for the kids . She nd i do not love one another any more but the kids again are my consern.

I've been thru marriage and divorce. LUCKILY no kids were involved. I have to agree with Anesthesia... Better that you're apart and happy, than together and miserable. If the kids will stay with her, make sure they know that you'll still be there for them, no matter what. Be the best father you can be!

[LuckyBastard]

Man, Been there done that, Look for the worst and hope for the best! GOOD LUCK! Mabe you need to get on the scoot and take a weekend trip and just think for awhile? Look at all the aspect's! And then make a decision. It's one small step for mankind, and a large leap for one man! I have no idea of your situation and it's nothing to me. But KID's are a RED flag! Your talking feelings, future, Health, $$ court's, Lawyer's, C support , and alamo depending on your income assets or stock statas and poss jail time if you are like me:madani: . I enlisted in the military for 4 just to get away. Guess what? That Fucking Dame, was and still is worse than fucking Irac. Still fuck's with me and my new wife. My conclusion, Women, are like a fucking recap steering tire with one lug nut, on a Nextel cup car! You never know when they are gonna blow out, blow up over heat or just fly the fuck off the damn car. How bad the crash is gonna be. Or who the fuck's gonna be injured or killed! :dizzy: Not all women :no: but aprox 99.9% :jamming: When God said Brains, they thought he said fucking Train's, ALLLLL Abooord :biker: My advice, as a biker & troop, not a marrage counsler is take a trip for a few day's peace of mind. And on the way back stop at Best Buy grab a CD of the J Giles Band. Drag in like snale shit in a fucking wagon rut. when she least expect's it. Don't say a word. Insert the CD and Crank, I MUSTA, YOU KNOW I MUSTA, I MUSTA GOT LOST! If she get's smart or has an attitude then dedicate the song Reputa The Buta to her. Warning, you may get a knot on your head so large it will take a quart of iodine to paint a ring around it. If it gets too bad you can always act like Forest Gump tell her I JUST FELT LIKE RUNNING!

SERIOUSLY, no offense to you brutha, but WTF?!? Between the misspellings, poor grammar and punctuation, that was WAY hard to read. Since this message from you was not directed to me, I just hope that Ol' Boy can figure out what you were saying... I know I damn sure couldn't quite figure it out.

Maybe I need to look for my decoder ring.

[Motosicle]

Sorry I drink alot on weekend's

[Raymo]

Went through it it 97. Had two young kids, 5 & 6. I was scared shitless she would try to limit my access to them. Wasn't long at all that I had them all I wanted and was liberated from the crazy Bitch. Best thing that ever happened to me!