Answer me this!

[Rheopipo]

When I wasn't married and was shy... (still am... kind off) was not that lucky... now that I am married and not that shy, woman seems to noticed the married ring on me and, if I where to take the opportunities, I could be on the sack a lot!... maybe is the bike :crazy3: WHY OHH WHY!!!! ??? Maybe I was trying to hard?
Always tried to please everybody I knew before... If I met a girl she knew she could count on me for everything...now I don’t even try... If I know someone and she likes me good if she does not it is her loss... Know that I am indifferent toward woman (don’t get me wrong... just indifferent enough not completely indifferent, don’t know if you get it) they seem to be more interested in me...

has anyone else had this happened to them?? It is a little wierd!

[Tangledj]

never been married bro,so I cant help ya there.What I can say is your wife
is bad ass bro.You need nothing more...unless she'll let them join!! :crazy3:

[Rheopipo]

never been married bro,so I cant help ya there.What I can say is your wife
is bad ass bro.You need nothing more...unless she'll let them join!! :crazy3:
My mind went on a little trip.... in reallity she would cut my balls off and throw them to the dogs.... remember she is latin after all!! :grin:

[Menace]

My mind went on a little trip.... in reallity she would cut my balls off and throw them to the dogs.... remember she is latin after all!! :grin:

Sounds as mean as my wife.

[Shak]

Sorry dude....Never had that problem...I have always been a Sexy Beast...Even before my wife. Chicks dig guys who don't give a shit and ignore them. They love the chase.

[Shadow]

Rheo, that happed to me as well!
I could not get the time of day from any female on this planet!
As soon as I got married, I think they give you a second look. like, hmmm, if she sees something in him, maybe there is something to him. Then they check you out a little better and get past all the social crap. Then there are those that feel you are 'safe' now, kind of like a gay guy, and they can mess with you and not be taken wrong. I had a very healty portion of both examples.

[Menace]

Rheo, that happed to me as well!
I could not get the time of day from any female on this planet!
As soon as I got married, I think they give you a second look. like, hmmm, if she sees something in him, maybe there is something to him. Then they check you out a little better and get past all the social crap. Then there are those that feel you are 'safe' now, kind of like a gay guy, and they can mess with you and not be taken wrong. I had a very healty portion of both examples.

I bet Susan knows the answer. :smart:

[Shadow]

I bet Susan knows the answer. :smart:
Oh Soooooozan?!
:wazzup:

[Rheopipo]

I think she got scared!

[Rhino]

Not that I was beating them off with a stick before, but as soon as the ring was on the finger, wow!!! I think it has something to do with the fact that there is now a challenge. Women have huge balls. I can be having drinks with my wife and have women come right up to me and blatently check me out or start talking to me. Man I wish I had no conscience. :break bed

[RAZOR]

Sorry dude....Never had that problem...I have always been a Sexy Beast...Even before my wife. Chicks dig guys who don't give a shit and ignore them. They love the chase.

i would have to agree allthough i am not a sexy beast nor did chicks dig me
but after getting married i found it more easy to talk to women and
figured out that women like men that are cocky and funny at the same time.
like i was at a bar by myself -(barhoping on the bike)- and this women came up to me and she asked me who i was here with i told her i was here with her with a cocky little smile after she laughed she said for reals who are you here with.
and i said i barley even met you and allready you are trying to hook up with my friends,next thing i know you will be at my moms house cooking dinner with her.
-(we had a fun night that night)-
---point is that i never answered her question and she did not get what she wanted---keep them guessing turns them on---ok i.ve talked to much :gossip:

[Rhino]

I think FF's and Lisa are just giving us enough rope to hang ourselves, then they will answer the question. They want to see what idiots we are.

But the real question is, if we take the ring off will the women go away??

[RAZOR]

But the real question is, if we take the ring off will the women go away??


i dont think so i think it all in the way u present yourself and being confident and not
letting the woman get any sense of wussyness. :beatnik:

[Rhino]

Yeah, I don't see me taking the ring off anytime soon. It's cheaper to keep her!!

[RAZOR]

It's cheaper to keep her!!


I HEAR THAT ONE. but if you could get away with why not.

[FFsLady]

Sorry Boys, I've been a little tied up, but I'm here now.
I love this question! I have had conversations about this before. I believe there are two factors to this. First, you are more confident and you dont seem needy or clingy (big turn off!) No matter what a woman may tell you, she still wants a man who can take care of her, who is stronger than her. It's natural.
Second, a single woman will first see your confidence then your ring and/or wife-girlfriend. She will unconsiously make note that another woman finds you attractive and is happy with you. Before FF and I started dating, we were just friends. He would talk about wanting to meet a decent woman blah blah blah...So I suggested that he and I go out to a bar so other women would see that he was attractive to someone else. It's nasty but that's the way it is.
I also had this happen to me. When I was dating someone, I had to fight them off with sticks, when I wasn't attached, it was tough meeting someone. People can tell if you're happy with yourself. Rheo, keep your toy in your pants, enjoy the compliments and go home to your wife, she should consider it a compliment because she is obviously making you happy.
One last note: I believe that when a man is more aloof, he will get more women. Women like to be noticed but when you come on too strong, we have to put our guard up.
Hope I helped! :happy:
Next...

[SmokeShowin]

Not that I was beating them off with a stick before, but as soon as the ring was on the finger, wow!!! I think it has something to do with the fact that there is now a challenge. Women have huge balls. I can be having drinks with my wife and have women come right up to me and blatently check me out or start talking to me. Man I wish I had no conscience. :break bed

Are you saying you've been with women who have balls?!? :no: :no: :no:

[Rhino]

Are you saying you've been with women who have balls?!? :no: :no: :no:

Freakin brass ones at that. And horns too.
Evil, bold, mind fuckers...that's what women can be. But god I love em!!

[Rheopipo]

Thanks FFLady...and I am still kind of shy :-) and "Rheo, keep your toy in your pants, enjoy the compliments and go home to your wife" I always do.... it is like the cartoons...

:angel: "go home, dont do anything you might regret..." :devil: "Fuck that... FUCK THAT!!!

jajaja...

[Mr.Sinister]

I have found as I got older and more established I have more to offer as a person . I became more confadent and did not have to bluff my way thru a conversation . I am the man I always wanted to be . I don't wear my ring anymore . I lost 50 lbs and it falls off . I was good looking as a young single guy but shy . I am still good looking and have ladys come on to me all the time . I would not want to srcew up what I have with my wife by straying .I love my kids to much for that .

[AirportFF]

He would talk about wanting to meet a decent woman blah blah blah...So I suggested that he and I go out to a bar so other women would see that he was attractive to someone else. It's nasty but that's the way it is.
...


Then we started fucking a short time later :luxhello: :crazy3: :break bed :Boobs: :wink_2: :bounce:

[M@Man]

I love women, I've never had a problem talking to them, I think it's cuz I was the youngest and only son and only grandson (spoiled). Don't get me wrong here I am absolutly not a lady killer. So, anyway, with all the female influences (Mom, sisters, aunts, grandmas...) I learned to speak the female language. (Plus my oldest sister told me "If I ever hear of you mistreating a woman, I'll hunt you down and cut it off.")
I think it's the "ring factor" that give guys confidence to talk to women. The thinking is "Hey it don't matter if you "do me" or not, I've got a lady to go home to."
What get me into trouble is the fact that I'm oblivious to weather a woman is interested in me or not. I can talk to a woman and Jeannie will tell me later "She was so flirting with you"
And I'm like "What?"
Hell it took me 10 years to figure out that Jeannie wanted me. :stunned:


M@

Remember ladies, I'm not a Doctor....But I'll play one!:wink_2:

[FFsLady]

Thats why you guys need women like us. Its not that we're jealous...It's just that we see MORE then you men do. She sounds like a great woman!